You want to have a baby and it hasn’t gone to plan.

Perhaps it’s taking longer than you expected and you've had disappointment after disappointment. Perhaps you’ve experienced a painful loss. Perhaps you’re experiencing secondary infertility. Or perhaps you’re nearing the end of your journey and not sure what that means for you. Whatever your situation, infertility challenges are tough. The relentlessness of it leaves us feeling disheartened, broken, overwhelmed, resentful, confused, angry, alone, and exhausted.

I know because I’ve been exactly where you are. I’ve felt what you’ve felt.

Having spent many years trying to get pregnant, I know what an emotional roller coaster struggling to conceive is. From disappointment, frustration, isolation, to sadness and grief – I felt it all.

Life is too short to struggle! Fertility challenges can set you on an emotional rollercoaster and talking to someone who understands and who can help you navigate through those emotions can help.

Talking and sharing your emotions and experiences will reduce the impact of what you’re experiencing. Coaching offers you guidance, support, and healing. Through coaching, you’ll see you can love your life regardless of what stage of the journey you're at.

I’m passionate about supporting you through infertility. I’m here to listen and guide you so that you can feel nurtured and understood.  I’ll help you connect with your inner guidance so you can make decisions that are right for you and lead you to more clarity, acceptance, and empowerment. 

Fertility Coaching will help you release any emotions, stress, and trauma so you can heal from your disappointments and losses so you don’t carry these into pregnancy and beyond. It helps uncover emotional blocks or beliefs that hold you back so you can move forward with hope and positivity.


Life doesn't always go the way we want. When we cannot control what happens to us, we can take control of how we respond. With coaching, you'll learn about acceptance and how to exert your power of choice over what life throws at you.

 It doesn’t matter how strong or resilient you are, struggling to conceive is stressful and the emotional impact of it is often bigger than we realise. You do not need to do it on your own.

My experience with infertility challenged me in a huge way. I learnt a lot along the way (especially what not to do!) and I’ve come out the other side with more tools in my toolkit, a greater perspective, and clear purpose.

I never had the baby I dreamed of, but I now know you don’t have wait until you have a baby to feel better! There is a way to feel better and I can show you how.

Letting Go of Having a Baby

I love to work with women who are thinking about, or ready to let go of having a baby. I know what is possible with the right support. I want to help you find clarity and freedom so you can live fully now.If you’re coming to the end of your fertility journey, and can’t imagine living life without the baby you’ve dreamed of, coaching can help you navigate through this.
You do not have to figure this out on your own. There is a way through, and I’ll support and guide you to a place where you feel healed, whole, and liberated. 

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What You Can Expect From Infertility Coaching  

  • Confidentiality  

  • A professional, experienced and qualified Coach 

  • A safe, supportive space to share how you’re feeling 

  • Validation of your experience with someone who gets it 

  • A range of coaching tools and modalities

  • Ongoing support between sessions

How does it work?

  • Feel completely heard, supported and understood

  • Find release and ease

  • Heal the build-up of emotions, disappointment, and loss

  • Feel good about yourself 

  • Reduce your stress and worry  

  • Reduce negatively impacting emotions  

  • Release emotional blocks and beliefs that are holding you back

  • Improved clarity around doubts and dilemmas and increase confidence to make great decisions based on what you truly want 

  • Feel empowered to face challenges

  • Connect to your body wisdom and the wisdom of your heart

  • An understanding of how infertility is impacting your life 

  • Learn tools and techniques to deal with the emotional impact and stress of infertility

  • Move forward with a sense of calm and confidence

  • Restore a sense of genuine hope and open to new possibilities

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NOTE: Fertility Coaching works with and supports you alongside any clinical, medical or alternative treatments and interventions that may be going on. The purpose is to support you with your emotional journey through fertility problems and should not replace professional health advice or treatment.

Infertility Support Coaching FAQs

How do I know if Infertility Support Coaching is right for me?

I think everyone who is struggling to conceive needs extra support. Coaching is a way for you to navigate through the complex emotions of infertility. ​​ Coaching may be right if you:

  • Feel like those around you do not understand your experience
  • You feel isolated
  • Are about to go through treatment
  • Have experienced ongoing disappointment
  • Have experienced a baby loss
  • Have a decision to make
  • Are unsure if you should continue but cannot imagine life without a baby
  • Have struggled to find the right support for you
​What can be important though, is finding the right person for you to work with. The coaching relationship is based on trust – it’s crucial that you feel able to express yourself openly and safely with your coach and they understand you. If you’re not sure if coaching with me is right for you just yet, book a free 30-minute clarity call. I’ll ask you some questions about your life and you talk. We’ll see if we’re a good fit to work together.

What is Infertility Support Coaching. What can I expect?

Fertility Coaching is an aspect of Life Coaching. It's a collaborative process focussed on helping you navigate the complex challenges of infertility confidently and safely. Coaching facilitates self-discovery, personal growth and learning so that you can regain balance and positivity in all aspects of your life. It's a thought-provoking and creative process that inspires you to open to possibilities and maximise your potential. Coaching honours you as the expert in your life and believes every client is resourceful, capable and whole. You’ll be guided to connect with your own truth and wisdom so you can experience healing, gain clarity, and find more peace and acceptance whatever emerges.

What stage of the fertility journey does coaching work best?

Fertility coaching works at any stage of your fertility journey.

  • When the struggle to conceive starts to impact your life
  • Before undergoing treatment so you feel prepared, hopeful, and resilient
  • Alongside IVF or other medical treatments to support you emotionally
  • Following disappointment or a baby loss to help you grieve and process
  • At the end of the journey to support you to transition with ease, calm and confidence
Regardless of what stage you are in, fertility coaching can help as it is tailored for you

Can coaching really help me find acceptance?

Yes! You may be surprised at what you can achieve. Coaching helps you find peace and acceptance with your experience.

Do session need to be in person?

Sessions are online (usually via Zoom) so you can talk to me from the comfort of your own home. Or if you live in Wellington, you are welcome to see me in person.

How often would we meet?

We would meet once every two-three weeks. I have found that this frequency leads to the greatest results. It allows time for integration, reflection, and application of learning and insights while maintaining momentum.

What qualifications do you hold?

Bachelor's degree in Psychology, Qualified Life Coach, Diploma in Clinical Hypnotherapy, Diploma in Career Guidance, Certificate in Adult Education, Accredited Mindfulness Facilitator, Bach Flower Remedies Level 1 and 2, Reiki Level 1, Certificate in Quantum Energy Healing (Emotions Code), The Emotion Code Certification (tbc in 2021)

Is there a payment plan option?

Yes. I’m happy to discuss this with you.